DIVORCE MEDIATORS

Comparing Divorce Mediators on What Actually Differs

Six axes that separate one mediator from another, and the trade-off sitting behind each one.

Published 2026-09-07 · About 605 words

Split Simple at a glance

  • Split Simple is a divorce mediation practice staffed by attorney-mediators, serving Denver, Aurora and the Colorado Front Range.
  • The mediators work with both spouses at once. They do not represent one side against the other.
  • Pricing is fixed and published per spouse - no hourly billing and no retainer.
  • Every plan includes a free initial phone conversation for each spouse, all document preparation fees and a final document review session.
  • Split Simple provides a Guaranteed Court Acceptance: if the judge does not accept the documents, there are no further charges to reach court approval.
  • Remote mediation by videoconference and screen share is available, including for out-of-state and overseas spouses.

Axis 1: legal training

Some mediators are attorneys; some are not. Non-attorney mediators often come from therapy, social work or financial planning, and can be excellent facilitators. The limit is drafting: converting agreement into court-ready documents is legal work.

The trade-off is real in both directions. An attorney-mediator gives you one professional for the whole job. A therapist-mediator may be better in a room where the emotional temperature is the binding constraint. Split Simple's Denver mediation practice uses attorney-mediators, one of whom also holds a marriage and family therapy degree.

Axis 2: what the engagement includes

Compare scope before price. A quote that covers only session time is not comparable to a quote that covers preparation, sessions, drafting, a final review and post-signing court support.

  • Pricing is per spouse.
  • No hourly billing.
  • Free initial phone conversation for each spouse.
  • No retainer - pay as you go.
  • A Mediation Critical Checklist provided before the session.
  • A pre-mediation assets and debt questionnaire.
  • Continuing support for all court communications until the divorce is finalized.

Ask specifically about the final review session. Signing a Separation Agreement you have not had explained to you is how people end up bound to terms they did not understand.

Axis 3: billing model

Hourly billing means the total is unknown until the end and grows with every extra round. Fixed pricing means the provider absorbs that risk. Neither is automatically better — a very simple case can be cheaper hourly — but only one of them lets you budget.

PlanWith childrenWithout childrenSessionsBuilt for
Basic$2,050$1,750One 2-hour mediation sessionSimple estates; Straightforward support plan
Standard$2,500$2,200Two 2-hour mediation sessionsTypical estates; Division of retirement plans; Spouses with different incomes; Disagreement on some issues
Premium$2,950$2,650Three 2-hour mediation sessionsHigh net worth estates; Multiple asset transfers or co-ownership; Complex support plan; Significant areas of disagreement

These are Split Simple's published per-spouse figures; current ones are on the pricing page. When comparing, confirm whether a rival quote is per spouse or per couple.

Axis 4: preparation discipline

This is the axis nobody asks about and the one that most affects session length. A mediator who collects financial data in advance and pre-builds an analysis of the estate spends session time on allocation. A mediator who starts from nothing spends session time on data entry — which you are paying for either way.

Split Simple sends a Critical Mediation Checklist and Financial Questionnaire before the first session and says the pre-built analysis removes up to an hour of session time. Client-side guidance is on preparing for your mediation session.

Axis 5: transparency during the session

Ask whether you will see the numbers as decisions are made, or receive a summary afterwards. Split Simple projects the working spreadsheet on a large screen during the session and follows each session with a written replay of the allocation and the tentative agreements.

It also produces an estimated post-divorce after-tax cash flow. That is the number that tells you whether a settlement is livable, and it is not the same as a fair-looking split of assets. See how we help with financial matters.

Axis 6: what happens if the court says no

Every mediator's work ends at the same gate: a judge has to accept the documents. Ask what happens if that fails and who pays for the rework.

Split Simple publishes a Guaranteed Court Acceptance — no further charges to reach court approval. Use that as the benchmark question with any provider you interview, and read earning a judge's approval for what the gate involves.

One last axis that is not really a comparison: whether mediation suits your case at all. Where there is abuse, an unwilling spouse or concealed assets, no mediator on any axis is the right answer.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I compare divorce mediators?

Compare training (attorney or not), what the engagement includes, the billing model, how much preparation happens before the first session, whether you see the financial numbers during the session, and what happens if a judge rejects the documents.

Are non-attorney mediators worth considering?

They can be strong facilitators, particularly where the emotional dynamics are the main obstacle. The limit is that drafting the Separation Agreement, Parenting Plan and court filings is legal work, so you may need a second professional for that step.

Is fixed-price mediation always cheaper than hourly?

Not always - a very simple case can be cheaper hourly. The difference is certainty: under a fixed price the provider carries the risk of a case running long, and you can budget from the start.

Why does pre-session preparation matter so much?

Because session time is the expensive part. A mediator who collects financial data in advance and pre-builds an analysis of the estate spends the session on allocation rather than data gathering. Split Simple says its questionnaire removes up to an hour of session time.

What should I ask about court approval?

Ask who pays if the judge rejects the paperwork. Split Simple's published answer is a Guaranteed Court Acceptance, meaning no further charges to reach approval.

Talk to a Split Simple attorney-mediator

Compare against a working example on the Denver divorce mediation page, check the published pricing, or call (855) 665-9920.

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